CHOICE make or break

   Today, I would like to talk about CHOICE, and am sure at one point in life,we have had to make decisions that has really made us who we are today.I got to realize that in life the kind of choices you make is determined by the level of knowledge you already attained, your life is a result of choices you make.Whatever you are right now or whatever you do is a matter of what you have chosen. the job you have, the wife you got married to e.t.c of course there are some exceptions.Sometimes our parents/guardians tend to force us to do things we don't even want to do especially in the career aspect which tends to be something negative at the end for some individuals.
   Earlier on i mentioned the level of knowledge attained,In order to get knowledge,training/Education is needed.Training which is defined as developing a particular skill to a desired standard by instruction and practice.There are different types of trainings but am going to be emphasizing on HOME TRAINING.Research shows that 70% of the youths in the prison are from broken homes.I  guess there would have been less problem in the society if this people were given proper home training.This shows that home training is very important among others.
Any experience that has an effect on what you think or act is called EDUCATION.It could be formal or informal education.Now lets be very realistic, we could also learn from our experiences/mistakes/wrong choices.Personally if u make the same mistake more than twice it isn't a mistake anymore for me it was just your CHOICE to make the mistake over and over again because if truly it was a mistake then you will avoid repeating it and try your best not to make it happen anymore. Of course no one is perfect and everyone deserves a second chance to put in there best but its so unfortunate that there are some people out there, no matter the  chances you give them,there would be no change. DESTINY is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of CHOICE. it is  not a thing to be waited for,it is a thing to be achieved and always remember you are free to make whatever choice you want but you are not free from the consequences of the choices. Few days ago i was talking to one of my friends and i remember i said you have the right to choose whoever is gonna stay in your life,you are in charge of your life and whatever anyone says or feel about you shouldn't be any of your business at all {i don't want to go deep into that probably another day}.
Like i was saying earlier, you have the right to choose places you want to go,clothes you want to wear forgetting about peer pressure and all. For instance if a guy approaches me and asks for my number,i can give it out after all its just a request...lol most guys nowadays dial the number right in front of you to know if its for real or not but even after that you can call me or message me it is my CHOICE to either reply your message or not . It also my choice to either pick up your call or not ." NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS ALWAYS REMIND YOURSELF YOU HAVE A CHOICE"

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